By Karim Hajee
First let me clearly state that there is no such thing as coincidence -- you orchestrate everything that happens to you. You do this by working with the power of your mind and subconscious mind -- which works in harmony with the universe. You can create good or bad things in your life -- it's really your choice.
The bad things that happen are not necessarily in harmony with the universe but instead are created by your ego self or when you refuse to adhere to the warning signs that come up. These are warning signs that try to help you by trying to get you to avoid taking a certain path. These warning signs also come up when you focus on the wrong things.
Nothing happens by chance. In short, you orchestrate every coincidence that happens in your life. The more you begin to think about this the more you will realize that what I am saying is true. I'll explain in more detail a little later. First let me describe how you orchestrate coincidences often without even knowing exactly what you are doing.
When you are focused on something, when you think about it regularly, when it is a priority in your life then you will begin to notice little coincidences pop up. When you are calm, relaxed and trust that you will find or get what you are looking for then the coincidences become more apparent. When your mind is quiet and not filled with negative thoughts and doubts then you will see these coincidences happen sooner.
This happens no matter what you regularly think about or focus on. So if you constantly worry, live in fear, or your frequently angry, frustrated or just plain negative then you will create coincidences that reflect what you think about regularly. The classic example is someone who is looking for a job but can't get one. You might say that my focus is on getting a job and that's great. But what thoughts and beliefs do you hold that sabotage yourself? What thoughts and beliefs do you hold that create the negative coincidences that you want to avoid?
Do you trust and truly believe that you will get a job? Or are you filled with fear, worry, anxiety and despair? Is there a sense of panic or is your mind calm knowing and believing that you will get the right job at the right time? Remember all of the elements have to be in place in order for you to create the positive coincidence you want to happen in order for you to get you that job or whatever it is you would like to see happen in your life.
Negative situations can arise when you focus on the wrong thing, when you let your ego self dominate - you focus on what your ego wants rather than focusing on what is right for you. When you let your ego dominate or when you focus on the wrong things, you then end up with a negative situation or what you don?t want.
Negative outcomes happen when you refuse to adhere to the warning signs that would prevent you from going on a negative path. If you don't believe me -- let's do a little exercise. You are where you are today because of a number of coincidences that took place in your life -- they all led you to where you are today.
This could be good or bad -- but my point is that if one of those coincidences had not taken place at a certain time in your life - you would be in a different situation. Think about it for a moment and here?s what you can do to better understand what I am talking about. Think about an important area of your life - it can be finances, love, home, career, family, travel anything - any significant area of your life. Now examine where you are today in relation to that area. Then go back a year or 5 years - look at where you were then. Now slowly start to work your way forward and try to examine the decisions you made in that area as they came up.
Notice any coincidences? If you had made one decision differently - would things have changed? If yes - then do you think that it?s just a coincidence that you made the choice you made? I don?t think so. You focused on something, good or bad, positive or negative, the opportunity came - in the form of a coincidence - and here you are today as a result of what you orchestrated some time ago. On some level - your thoughts worked in harmony with the universe - or you refused to adhere to the warning signs - or you focused on the wrong thing.
Creating Your Own Coincidences
Now you can orchestrate new coincidences in your life - you can begin creating the life you want by working in harmony with the universe. First - start by focusing on what you want. Think about what you want to happen. Next - begin telling yourself that everything is working out fine and you have what you want. Then trust and let go - I know that's not always easy - but trusting and letting go is actually the most important part.
Only when you are calm, relaxed and trust that everything will work out smoothly - will the universe begin working in harmony with what you want and create the -coincidences - that will get you there. Be patient - it may take some time for the right thing to happen at the right time - but it will happen. In fact, the minute you start doing the above exercises you have moved from creating what you don't want to creating what you want.
Avoiding Negative Coincidence -- Focusing on what is right
Here's the difference between what you want and what is right for you. You may want a home - and having a home is right for you - everyone should have a home or an affordable place to live. Your ego may want a mansion on the hill with a giant pool in the back and a terrific view. But what may be right for you - given the situation that you are currently in - may be a smaller more modest home that may not have a giant pool in the back. In both cases you have a home - but in the latter you get the home that is right for you and your ego does not dominate - it doesn not prevail.
What may actually be right is to have a large home without a pool - but still have a terrific view. My point is that you don't always know what is absolutely right - you don't know what is best for you - except that you should have a home. Now trust your higher power, your subconscious mind and the univers - trust that you'll find the right home and you?ll be guided to it. This can work for anything or any area in your life and the sooner you get started, the sooner you'll get comfortable with the process and the sooner you'll see results.
PS: Remember if you don't do anything - if you don't change the way your mind works and direct your subconscious mind to create the life you want - everything stays the same - nothing changes. This is your life - make the most of it - begin working with the power of your mind and subconscious mind to create the life you want. Learn more here: Creating Power
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