How to Command Others With Hypnotic Phrases

By Paul Handforth
Excerpt from How to Be a Lady Killer

There are certain words and phrases that have a very powerful influence on the mind of the receiver. In your case that means the women you are trying to win over. If you want to learn about key words and phrases that will make sure that she stays totally focused on you, this chapter is a very important one. Read it, absorb it and take the lessons away to help you to control conversations.

Professionals use these key words and phrases in disciplines such as sales and psychology. They are employed to tap into the minds of those they want sell to, or to have influence over. They have an immediate and hypnotic impact on the mind, instantly gaining the attention of the listener. Used correctly they can ensure that the other person’s attention remains locked onto you and the message you are trying to convey.

The use of these words and phrases will hook her. Dropping one or more in from time to time will ensure that she stays hooked on you and what you are saying. Apply the following lists of suggestions and observe as she only has eyes and ears for you.

Five Hypnotic Ways to Get a ‘Yes’

If you end a statement with a question it can induce people to automatically say, ‘Yes’. They will not think about it, but are conditioned to confirm what you are suggesting. Making the positive statement invites them to do so too.

The following five statements will usually result in a positive response:-

1. ‘You will have another drink, won’t you?’
2. ‘You look after yourself well, don't you?’
3. ‘You’ll be here when I get back, right?’
4. ‘You know what I am saying, don't you?’
5. ‘You are a really positive person to have a conversation with, aren't you?’

How can she refuse when you have already planted the answer to your question in her head?

Just imagine some of the questions and answers you could plant deep inside her mind... Do you see the raw power of this method?

Ways to Focus Her Attention on You

Use the following to switch her immediately on to what you are talking about. If you have something important to say, which you need her to be focused on, here are some very effective words and phrases that can help. Used immediately prior to your point, they will help to instantly swing her attention your way.

1. ‘Promise you won’t repeat this to anyone, but...’
2. ‘Now don't miss a word of this ...’
3. ‘Do you want to know a secret?’
4. ‘Now listen closely ...’
5. ‘How good are you at keeping a secret?’
6. ‘I shouldn’t really be telling you this, but...’
7. ‘Stop!’
8. ‘You’re not going to believe this, but ...’

These are just a tiny sample of hypnotic ways to gain a woman's attention and plant your chosen response into her mind. To make full use of the power of these methods, they must be used together with those discussed in more detail inside How To Be A Lady Killer.

Killer Tip: Jack, talk to a woman using hypnotic methods and she will be unable to leave your side.